Sexy (Normal) Moves to Spice Up Your Night

Thu, 01/19/2012 - 00:12 -- amber

Ice cubes, furry handcuffs and a French maid outfit might be what you are turning to keep things interesting with your man.

Is your partner going to find these new items weird or sexy? Inevitably, sex can become routine with your long-term partner. Looking for ways to keep him interested and coming back for more, instead of scaring him away? Don’t fret—here are the moves all men want to keep sex exciting, from start to finish.

  1. Throughout the day, send him sexy text messages so that you will both anticipate the excitement that the night has to hold. Just one that says “you’re in for a surprise tonight” can be enough to excite your man. It doesn’t have to be anything extremely kinky or anything that would make you uncomfortable to say.

  2. To really get him going, try nibbling on his ear lobe. Your mouth on this sensitive part of his ear will set off some hard to resist, sexual sensations. Use a lot of tongue and a little teeth.

  3. During foreplay, make a game out of it. Try setting limits to make foreplay steamier. For example, while giving him oral, try keeping your hands behind your back the entire time. These little games make sex more fun, turn your guy on and make sex more memorable.

  4. When it’s time for the main event, being a “tease” can make your guys sex experience that much more electrifying. Start out going slow and he will be begging for more. This will also make sex last longer and be more enjoyable for you.

  5. Talkin’ dirty will always be a favorite extracurricular of sex for men. Whether it’s moaning, telling him how good he is or just saying his name, dirty talk will make him feel like he’s the man and that this is the best sex you’ve ever had. A little praise during sex can really turn a man on.

  6. After sex, the routine usually involves cuddling or a nice nap. Instead, take a shower together and clean each other off after being so “dirty.” Sex may be over, but the fun doesn’t have to be.

Handcuffs, whips and chains don’t always have to be involved to reinvent your sex life. You don’t have to recreate a porno or create multiple personalities for sex to be fun again, contrary to some sex advice. Try a few of these things to drive your man wild; sooner or later, you all will be inventing your own things to try.

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Amber Hoffman

I am writer and editor at Bedroom Stories online magazine, writing about sexual relationships and better understanding our lives. Feel free to contact me at [email protected]