Sexual Butterfly And Its Easy Varieties

Sun, 07/15/2012 - 14:49 -- zena

The Butterfly position is great for the edge of the bed, couch, a desk, a counter or just about any edge of something or someplace of your choosing. The position is simple to get into.

Basically, the receiver lays back on just about any edge that is big enough and plants her feet on the floor while her partner stands or kneels in between her legs while penetrating her. This position is not only easy to do but is also very comfortable for both partners. Although a pillow under a kneeling partner could be useful too for support purposes and to make sure that one doesn't hurt his knees. The key is that the woman needs to line up correctly with her lover.

How does one achieve that? Well, it is somewhere that puts one's pelvis a foot lower than her lover. Lifting one's legs and letting them rest on his shoulders can also help for easier access and for more stimulation. There are many other activities that the kneeling partner can do to maximize his pleasure while in this position. He can hold on to the breasts of his partner, fondling them, pinching the nipples and even licking and sucking on them. He can also hold on to his partner's hips as he bucks into her as he see himself continuously entering her. I don't see why any one wouldn't want that. If it is difficult for the woman to reach her partner while raising her pelvis for him due to height differences or another factor, a pillow under her behind can be helpful too to help her raise her hips for the man.

This position is not only great for penetration but great for foreplay too. The man can lick a woman's vagina while stimulating her with his fingers then proceed to the actual intercourse. Why one should love it? When done at a slow pace, both partners can relax and get into the mood more but doing it in a faster pace can work for intense couples too. The butterfly does not require both parties to have a high energy reserve or to be overly skilled or flexible.

Balance is required but its requirement is minimal. As the woman's pelvis tilts to let her man slide inside her, the position actually grants him a fuller access to her. The friction between their two bodies help build momentum and lust. An orgasm from this position is easy to attain especially when one's partner is skilled in controlling the right pace at the proper time.

One variety of this position is called The Arch. In this position, the receiver gets into a partial bridge position with her shoulders and elbows on the same level with each other and resting on the surface while her partner kneels before her, entering her. Due to its simplicity, The Arch is often overlooked but luckily, thanks to its fantastic angle of penetration that this position offers, it should be a part of a regular sexual routine. A pillow should come in handy for the receiver to put under head in order to reduce strain and of course, risk neck injury.

Another one is The Bridge which is similar to The Arch but somehow a bit more difficult. In The Bridge, the receiver's arms are behind or below her in order to support her body weight making sure that she balances her upper body off the surface while her partner enters her from a kneeling position. The Bridge is not commonly used mainly because of its added difficulty.

The Cradle position is similar to The Bridge except in this position, the receiver's feet are planted on the sides of her partner and her arms are behind or below her to support her upper body off of the surface while her partner enters her from a kneeling position. This position offers a lesser angle of the receiver's body leaning back and therefore, a lower degree of difficulty. Although easy, not everyone favors this position probably due to their consideration of penis size and body size of their partners as well. Despite that, there are many things that a man can do to a woman as they indulge in this position. The man can either help his partner by holding on her hips to steady her or if he gets too carried away or is a bit of a selfish lover then suckling and fondling her breasts is the only other best option.

There are many other variations to the Butterfly but perhaps we should talk about the other more complicated varieties next time. For now, why don't you practice with the easy variations first and have fun with them. Call it training if you will but it is preparation for something better to come. Adding a little twist or kink to the said positions is highly advisable depending on what you want to achieve with your sexual partner.

The Butterfly is a definitely an easy sexual position that many can enjoy and is a must try for all couples out there.

Zena Alethea Teofilo

Zena is an online English teacher. She enjoys writing and drawing during her free time. She writes many different articles and stories every day. Some are erotic in nature while others are informative. Writing for this website has opened her to a new world of possibilities. She is happy to share her thoughts and opinions about many things in life. She just hopes that many people are satisfied with her work for she aims to please.

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