Anal Masturbation

Thu, 07/26/2012 - 20:18 -- kylerichtig

Have you explored your ass? Not everyone has. The anus and rectum are there for the playing, even if you do not already consider it a sexual organ. Anal masturbation is a great way to find what you like before engaging in anal sex.

Prepare the area

For most feces is not a natural aphrodisiac. If you want to indulge in anal masturbation, think about showering first. In fact, the shower may be the best place to explore if worried about dirtying yourself. Anal douches are available for more experienced folk.

Starting out

The first rule of thumb for anal masturbation is lubrication. The anus does not have the same self-lubricating glands that the vagina possesses. Purchase lubricant, (liquid is best), or simply use your own saliva if in a pinch. Start by lubricating a finger and exploring the rim of your anus. If you have long or jagged nails, consider wearing rubber gloves for protection. Use circular motions and different pressures to find out what nerves you have to work with.

Insertion

Different positions affect the ease of insertion. Try your first insertion standing, with one foot up on the edge of the tub or on a low table. If this is logistically impossible, try lying in bed with one knee pulled toward the body. Your first insertion should be a finger not a toy, as both your finger and anus have nerves to give you feed back. If your goal is to work up to using toys, build up your tolerance to more than one finger first.

Toys

Once you have an understanding of your body and what you like, you can move on to different toys. Common anal masturbation toys include dildos, vibrators and anal beads. Use dildos for simple insertion. Vibrators serve to stimulate the exterior and interior of the anus and well as for insertion. Anal beads are inserted into the anus generally during genital masturbation. When the user reaches orgasm, they pull out the string of beads for stimulation. Extreme anal masturbation lovers may include larger items such as traffic cones in their "toolbox". Remember not to use anal toys in any other part of the body unless thoroughly disinfected between uses. Better yet, have separate toys for separate parts of the body. Anal masturbation opens new solo pleasure doors. Whether you simply want to slip in a finger, or are looking for a 12-inch dildo to do the job, always use lubrication liberally. The anus is comprised of delicate tissues and should be respected.

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Kyle Richtig

Kyle Richtig is a Canadian writer of foundry pushing poetry and fiction. He is certified in personality assessment and sees sex as an endless buffet of options. Check out more about his projects at kylerichtig.com