A Guide To Threesomes

Wed, 08/01/2012 - 00:53 -- zena

Ever heard of a menage a trois? Well, basically it is a French word that describes three people who have the arrangement of having sexual relations to each other while living under the same roof. But modern day threesomes are not like their previous counterparts. Getting into this kind of lifestyle isn't as easy as everyone thinks it is. Many people have many reasons as to why they want to try threesomes. Some people just want to try it all due to their adventurous and risque attitudes. While others have already gotten bored with the usual one partner relations and have considered that threesomes keep things interesting in bed. Whatever reasons you may have as to why you want to do a threesome, here is a simple guide for you.

A threesome is a more intimate and personal form of group sex with some very unique characteristics. There are many different types of threesomes. The most common one involves men who are looking to fulfill the fantasy of being with two women at the same time, especially if these women are bisexual or are open to performing bisexual acts with each other. There are also some women who want to experience being with two men at the same time but with less or none of the bisexual actions included. Lastly, believe it or not, there are also threesome partners that involve mainly all men or all women. It is up to those involved in the partnership if they wish to have bisexuality in the mix or none at all. Some of these partnerships just want to have physically intimate situations with other people.

Why should one initiate a threesome to begin with? Mainly, it is for fulfilling one's sexual desires and fantasies or perhaps bi-curious tendencies. For some bisexual people, they are simply looking for that occasional excitement of a threesome. People who want to become the center of attention of two people in a relationship are needed in threesomes. Threesomes have its pros and cons. Of course, having one can guarantee a very electrifying experience. The advantages and disadvantages of participating in group sex are almost similar to monogamous sex. One advantage is when you all take turns being the star in your so called relationship. One becomes the star while the other two devour him/her, pleasuring him/her for the time being. All three can take turns in that. A threesome is all about giving and receiving in the first place. Another advantage is that some people do not want to get attached and thus do not want to be in committed relationships, a threesome can guarantee that. It is all mainly about sex and nothing else.

Threesomes get awkward one of the three people participating isn't curious to try many things thus, limiting the things that everyone in the relationship can do. Another case is when one of the partners start getting jealous as he/she watches the other two engage into contact. If this is the case then it will cause distress to the relationship and things might turn sour. It is crucial that no one gets left out. Just like in monogamous relationships, the husband must not let his wife be neglected and the other way around. If you are selfish then you probably might not be able to commit to a threesome. For those who want to have a threesome for the first time and have absolutely no idea as to what to do, no need to fret. It will come naturally. The beauty of threesomes, especially when there is bisexuality involved, is that each participant can almost always give and receive something. It is an incredible hot experience that anyone should consider trying at least once in their life.

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Zena Alethea Teofilo

Zena is an online English teacher. She enjoys writing and drawing during her free time. She writes many different articles and stories every day. Some are erotic in nature while others are informative. Writing for this website has opened her to a new world of possibilities. She is happy to share her thoughts and opinions about many things in life. She just hopes that many people are satisfied with her work for she aims to please.