Ways of Rekindling The Sexual Flame

Ways of Rekindling The Sexual Flame

Sat, 03/02/2013 - 13:35 -- amber

Sex is a beautiful thing. Christians too believe that sex is a gift bestowed upon a man and woman by God and that they should enjoy it to the fullest. Things however happen when one is in a relationship to an extent that, you may lose the once sexual attraction that was once shared between you and your spouse. At such times, many couples opt to outsource this service from other partners and forgetting all about the pleasures and the adventures they used to share as a couple. Rekindling the sexual flame is one of the most romantic things under the earth; it’s indeed a whole lot better than make-up sex. Can this flame be rekindled? The answer is Yes, and here is how it all happens:

Flashback on what turned you on when you first met your partner

Bring back the memories that brought the two of you together. Although some of the things may have changed since then, look on the brighter side; some things may have changed for the better. Let the memories of the first time you spent with each other flow, the kisses, the love making, the vacations and quality time spent together. The mind is everything; if you think about these things, you’ll start falling for your partner once more.

Flirt with each other

One of the key causes of poor sexual connection between couples is not acting towards that person the way you once acted. Those small and sweet things you once said to each other, bring them back. Simple words like thank you, sorry, I love you, I miss you, you look beautiful…carry a lot of weight in them. If the other person feels that you appreciate them enough, they will find the need to return the favour, possibly in bed.

Dress up

When was the last time you dressed for your man, or your woman. Dress well enough so as to look good for him/her and also so that your partner can brag about you to their friends. A number of people actually get turned on by the thought or the sight of seeing their friends ogle at their spouse. Pick a hobby that you both enjoy and believe would bring you together: Do the two of you share a common interest that you believe would give you more time to spend together, and hopefully rekindle the sexual flame? An example would be to pick a pottery class so that after the lesson, you would be very dirty hence take a bath together which is bound to lead you to doing other sexy things.

Finally, share sexual fantasies. You may have already had these fantasies, or they may be new. At the end of the day, if you rekindle them, both of you will be very happy, and very sexually satisfied.

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Amber Hoffman

I am writer and editor at Bedroom Stories online magazine, writing about sexual relationships and better understanding our lives. Feel free to contact me at [email protected]