Tantric Sex: Why Should You Learn It?

Tantric Sex: Why Should You Learn It?

Sat, 01/19/2013 - 00:59 -- zena

First of all, what is Tantric Sex? Tantric Sex is the union of the male energy, Shiva and the female energy, Shakti then that is the highest point of enlightenment. Like many other things that we have to do, for example, meditation or yoga, we practice them for the purpose of enlightenment. Tantric Sex has been around 5,000 years ago and it is a common Eastern spiritual practice. Proper breathing is one key to get Tantric Sex. If you can keep your body relaxed and your mind clear of all not so important things then you will able to reach your inner you. Just by breathing, you can spread orgasmic energy all through out your body parts. This tingling effect can lead you to having a more intimate connection with your partner.

Keep in mind that having an orgasm isn't the whole point of Tantric Sex. Instead it focuses on you and your partner staying in the blissful moment of arousal. If your mind is simply set on getting an orgasm then you will be able to miss just about everything else that can be considered orgasmic as well which can happen to your bodies along the way. They say that whenever couples practice Tantric Sex, women can have fuller orgasms only because the act doesn't focus on one big orgasm but many sensual ones. That is why couples are advised to learn Tantric Sex in order not to take the simple pleasures of making love for granted. If you are interested in making this happen, here are some of the simple things that you can do to achieve such an act.


Transforming your bedroom into a brand new space for you and your partner to spend time together is one of the first things you should do. Putting some scented candles, using some scented oils as well as using luxurious fabrics like silks are highly advisable. Flowers, fresh fruits and chocolates add to the mood that you are setting. It always best to keep your surroundings inspiring and arousing. This will promote good energy for you and your partner to feed on.


Putting your favorite music on is the next thing that you should do. Close your eyes and feel the rhythm of the song. Move your body along with it. Feel free to do whatever you think feels good for you. Relax and breathe. Invite your partner to join you as you lie down in your bedroom. The point of doing these is to release your body off tension and stress. It is said that if you make love after that, you are more likely to have a full on orgasm.


You can do this while on a bed or on the floor. Sit on his lap and then, face him. Close your eyes as you try to imagine your breathe going in and out of your body. Begin rocking your body as you inhale, moving your chest forward as you do so. Move back as your exhale. Your partner should do the same thing. After awhile, you both will both feel a strong sensual connection with each other. When you are both in this state, you will become more sensitive to each other.


Continue to sit in his lap as you rock together. Inhale while he is exhaling and vice versa. As he breathes out, you will discover that you are breathing his breath into your body and imagine it going down to your sex organ. As you exhale, you will become more conscious as to what you are sharing with your partner. You can then kiss and share the breath. They say that intercourse is not even needed when you are already merged this way however, that doesn't mean that you shouldn't do it. Tantric Sex just means you should appreciate every little sensual tidbit that you discover along the way.

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Zena is an online English teacher. She enjoys writing and drawing during her free time. She writes many different articles and stories every day. Some are erotic in nature while others are informative. Writing for this website has opened her to a new world of possibilities. She is happy to share her thoughts and opinions about many things in life. She just hopes that many people are satisfied with her work for she aims to please.