How To Make Valentine's Day Sexy

How To Make Valentine's Day Sexy

Thu, 02/07/2013 - 10:54 -- zena

Valentine's Day is said to be one of the most important events in couples' lives but then again, did you know that not all couples actually like celebrating this event? Why? I guess most of them are fed up with all the usual cheesiness and corniness that comes along with the holiday. So, why be a victim to all the same boring routines every year when you can dare to be different this year? They say that both men and women prepare for this event but if you want to be a romantic this year then learn to take charge and surprise your partner on V-Day. Who knows you just might get lucky? So, where do we start? Well, there are many ways to kick start Valentine's Day right. If you truly want to impress your partner then here are some tips that will probably make your V-Day more interesting.

First on the list would have to be prolonged foreplay. Yes, I know. This sounds too direct to the point but then again, isn't Valentine's Day a day for romance? What is romance without sex? Do you remember the last time that you and your partner engaged in prolonged foreplay that did not lead right away to penetration? I bet you can't remember the last time huh? We often underestimate how important it is to warm our partners up before doing the deed. Sometimes simply cuddling our partners can go a long way. We may not think it will do a lot but apparently according to medical findings, it does. Couples who cuddle more or who value foreplay more are found to be not just healthier but also happier. Making our partners feel special is the ultimate goal here and not just that, prolonging foreplay can actually make your partner so turned on that he/she will end up begging for it. Perhaps you are doubting your capability of doing something like this but then again, worry not for you are capable. You just need to believe that you are. Do you believe that anticipation is hotter than climax? Leave your partner wanting more. Seize the moment. To do foreplay in a rush can make penetration painful and climax not that great. For more intense climaxes, go for longer foreplays. What better way to spend your Valentine's Day than to make this ultimate sacrifice in gratifying you and your partner which I bet he/she will remember forever. Who wouldn't want that?

Next on the list is a warm bath. After the prolonged foreplay session, how about proceeding with a warm bath? Warming your partner up in more ways than one is also a good way to celebrate a different Valentine's Day. This sensual Valentine's Day idea involves filling a bathtub with some rose petals or scented oils, which can somehow help you and your partner feel relaxed. This will prepare your bodies for what's to come. This will help build up the excitement. The whole hot bath idea also helps set the mood. Complete the whole vibe with dim candles and some sensual music playing in the background. Make sure that both of you take a shower to be clean before stepping inside the tub. It would be a big turn off for you and your partner if you find out that both of you are actually bathing in your own filth. Using massage oils packed with different scents and flavors can also help you and your partner prepare for what's ahead. Try massaging each other with the massage oils. You can even lick off the remains if you feel like it.

Tired of making love in the same place? Having sex on Valentine's Day doesn't have to be a boring routine. Be original! There are many ways to make things more interesting. Modifying the act of doing things is not enough. Modifying the location is something that should be considered as well. Don't stick to the dinner date and movies routine. Go for something a bit unexpected . If you want to be unpredictable, consider public sex. The fact that it is taboo and that the fear of getting caught can actually cause excitement to course through your veins can make the exercise extra kinky. Aside from that you can also indulge in sexual activities that you both don't usually do. Tying and blindfolding your partner up doesn't sound so bad. In fact, even spanking your partner isn't something bad as well.

Did you know that feeding your partner can be sweet too? If you are not the type to do this for your partner then Valentine's Day is the perfect time to do so. Try cutting up some fruits like strawberries, melons, apples and chocolate and then serve them to your partner. Try to have a little sexual fun with it as well. Try putting the food in between your teeth as you give the food to him/her. Try putting the food in any sensual part of your body and let your partner devour it. You can do also do the same thing. You can make a feast out of your bodies with just simple treats. Incorporating the whole trying and blindfolding practice with the whole feeding might just work wonders for you and your partner.

Chocolate is sinful and it might just be your best friend. Why not try melting some of it and then dripping some of it on your bodies? Try licking them off and sucking them as you both devour each other. Combining this idea with other foods doesn't sound bad either. Besides, putting this together with the other things mentioned on this list might just work for you.

Blindfolding a partner sounds exciting only because your partner will not get to see what is happening around him/her. Introducing different scents to your partner and making your partner guess what each one is might sound strange but it might actually work. But if you don't want to do this to your partner then tying up might sound more appealing to you and your partner. Some women actually like being dominated. So, do some men. So, why not fulfill your partner's sexual fantasy this Valentine's Day?

If you want to give a sensual gift to your lover this Valentine's Day, why not buy your partner some lingerie (for women) and mangerie (for men)? For men, try to get your women some sexy, lacy, satin wear. Ask her to put it on for you. Ask her to dance for you. Tear it off and go primal on her. Do you thing. I am sure you can already pick up the pace from there. Meanwhile, for women buying their men some mangerie, just don't buy anything funny or silly. That won't ruin the mood. It will just make it less sexy and less serious. Try to let your man seduce you no matter how embarrassed he might be. Promise him that he will be rewarded afterward.

If that doesn't work, how about indulging in sexy games? Be creative. Try using body paint while you play a sexy guessing game. Getting the wrong answer will get you or your partner five minutes of oral sex. Meanwhile, a right answer gets either of you give minutes of tongue action. Actually, win or lose, you both get in on some action. How about a sexy word game? Using scrabble and then posting explicit or suggestive words will surely get your partner turned on big time. Words after all affect the brain which helps you imagine things.

The trick to making Valentine's Day sexy is your creativity. Go wild and embrace your inner provocateur. Make this a game of seduction. If you can handle it, do you think your partner can too? Well, why don't you wait and see?

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Zena Alethea Teofilo

Zena is an online English teacher. She enjoys writing and drawing during her free time. She writes many different articles and stories every day. Some are erotic in nature while others are informative. Writing for this website has opened her to a new world of possibilities. She is happy to share her thoughts and opinions about many things in life. She just hopes that many people are satisfied with her work for she aims to please.