Watching Pornography with your Man

Watching Pornography with your Man

Thu, 03/07/2013 - 10:49 -- amber

One of my friends used to joke that women watch porn movies to the very end with the hope of seeing the couple get married.

The idea of watching pornography with your man has for a long while been left out of the discussion box. Though some men refer to keep and watch it privately, many of them wish that their women would open up the idea of watching pornography together. A lot of women however fear that their men could start wishing that they were with the woman on the screen rather than being with the one sitted next to them. Pornography however isn’t just a man’s visual form of entertainment. If he looks at the girl, you too should be looking at the man.

The idea behind watching a pornography film together is not to criticize or compare each other with the porn stars you see on TV. It should instead be a learning experience for the both of you in order to add some spice into your bedroom. You could also diversify on what films to watch in order to keep them spontaneous.

Since it is very unlikely that you can both watch the whole pornographic film from the start to the end, once you start having sex, you should refrain from keeping your eyes glued to the screen. If this is the case with your man and you feel uncomfortable about it, let him know and switch request him to turn off the TV. You should however put more effort towards giving him a stellar sexual performance so that he forgets all about the characters he is from watching and direct all his attention towards you. Although some men may expect you to give similar acts as those shown on the film, still, if you are uncomfortable, let him know.

Watching of pornography between couples is recommended but not highly encouraged. Though initially it may be driven towards spicing your sex life, getting addicted may have a toll on your relationship. To prevent this from happening, do not watch pornography every other day. Come up with other ways that you could adopt in order to spice your relationship. Reading erotic materials and creating your own sex tapes could be some of the alternatives. You may also consider thinking out of the box and doing more things together that are bound to bond you and make you more sexually attracted to each other.

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Amber Hoffman

I am writer and editor at Bedroom Stories online magazine, writing about sexual relationships and better understanding our lives. Feel free to contact me at [email protected]