Why You Should Never Sleep With Him On The First Date

Why You Should Never Sleep With Him On The First Date

Tue, 10/23/2012 - 00:21 -- zena

You are single and want to start dating people once again but before you ever start dating again, it is best to know some rules that you need to remember before dating first. Oddly enough, there are only a few people who ever review these rules. One of the rules that one must remember is the fact that you should never sleep with your date on your first date. Many people ask why especially because lately, it doesn't really matter for many people anymore. It seems that because more and more people have become more liberated through time, sleeping with someone on the first date isn't much of an issue anymore. But if your purpose for dating is to find someone that you will end up having a relationship with, I don't think you should just sleep with that person right away. However, if you only date people because you want to have one night stands then that is a totally different story.

Sleeping with someone on the first date will just boost their ego. Sleeping with them will prove that you are too easy and that you are not worth the challenge. Sometimes waiting for the second or third date will help you determine if a guy truly wants to be with you or not. If he is truly serious to take your new found relationship to the next level then he would arrange a date with you again next time. Sometimes this way, you will know a man's motive more and even give you more time to get to know each other better. That way you won't regret anything in the end. Hand holding and kissing as well as embracing are all common gestures on dates. Some women are just more lenient that others when it comes to giving them all and tolerating such things. Sex should never be one of the things in your priority list on the first date especially if you don't want your date to think that you are nothing but booty call.

Unfortunately, so many women have made this mistake in the past. Sadly, they have to learn the hard way. As a woman, I don't want to feel like I was used and then after that, disposed. I wouldn't want to sleep with a stranger and then end up being ditched the next day. I can't handle rejection well and perhaps it is because I never want to be in such a vulnerable situation ever. Taking the risk and leaving yourself open to such an experience might lead to good or bad results. You just need to be prepared for it no matter what. If you get a good result out of it then good for you. If not, learn from the experience and don't let it happen again. Let's face it. Not all men are gentlemen. Do not be take advantaged of. Don't let yourself become the victim. Be more vigilant and more cautious. Bear in mind that sex on a first date can lead to varying results. I just do not encourage it for your own sake however, in the end, the choice is still up to you.

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Zena Alethea Teofilo

Zena is an online English teacher. She enjoys writing and drawing during her free time. She writes many different articles and stories every day. Some are erotic in nature while others are informative. Writing for this website has opened her to a new world of possibilities. She is happy to share her thoughts and opinions about many things in life. She just hopes that many people are satisfied with her work for she aims to please.