The Unspoken Lingerie Basics

Sat, 05/04/2013 - 15:39 -- amber

Whether male or female, younger or older, we all love lingerie. There however is so much that is barely known about this incredible sexual costume. If you are a woman and want to treat your man to a brand new you in sexy lingerie, you’ve to understand a few of the unspoken lingerie basics. Examples of these basics include the following:

First, let in your man in deciding what is best for you. Don’t just walk in to the store and fit in just any lingerie that catches your eye because at the end of it all, it’s not your eye but your man’s eye that you want to catch. When going shopping, don’t leave him behind but instead drag him along so that he too can take part in deciding what’s best for the two of you.

Entrust your body to a salesman or woman who can guide and advice you towards picking the right wear. Since your body size is bound to change occasionally, at least have someone you trust take up your measurements. They can then give you a second opinion when doing your shopping. It’s very hard for a woman to find the right size of lingerie that fits both at the top and the bottom. This shouldn’t be an excuse to dress in unfitting lingerie. You should instead look for a lingerie tailor to adjust the measurements that are flattering and compliment your body. If you have trouble finding one, you could ask your friends, or even a saleswoman from where you shop.

With so many different colors and designs out there, it may be hard to pick one. Although colors are more attractive and tend to bring a warmer and sexier feeling to the bed, when in doubt, go black. In the stores, black lingerie may look dull, but in the bedroom, they are extremely sexy and tend to bring out the vixen in every woman. Moreover, they are more versatile and flattering to women of all shapes and sizes.

You don’t have to put on lingerie the minute your man gets home, or feel the need to make love. Instead, you can wear your corset underneath your blazer for the entire day. That way, it will make you feel sexier throughout the day. When the time to act seductive and sexy kicks in, you also have no problem bringing in the naughty girl in you.

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Amber Hoffman

I am writer and editor at Bedroom Stories online magazine, writing about sexual relationships and better understanding our lives. Feel free to contact me at [email protected]