The Five Sexual Secrets Every Man Keeps from His Woman

The Five Sexual Secrets Every Man Keeps from His Woman

Fri, 03/15/2013 - 10:51 -- amber

No matter for how long you have been in a relationship with a man, there will be certain secrets that he’ll always keep from you, usually because he feels that telling the truth may hurt you. Knowing these sexual secrets can however help the both of you build a more open and better relationship. Wondering what these great 5 sexual secrets are? Well, they include the following:

Dirty Talks Being naughty in the bedroom and talking dirty is something every man likes to hear as it stimulates him. Praising his sexual prowess with words can further make him feel potent and drive him into giving you a sexual experience that you have never had before. Remember, it all lies in the power of words.

Honesty Though sex is known to have loads of benefits to both the man and the woman, lack of honesty from the woman’s side can gradually kill it. If you want to keep the flame alive, you ought to start talking and expressing yourself in an open manner. If you have problems with your man especially regarding his sexual performance, simply let him know so that he or the two of you can find way to reconcile.

This is indeed a wonderful way of spicing up your sex life.

Let him enjoy the dance Men love watching their women satisfy themselves by masturbating. Moreover, they want to be made to feel that they desire you. This could take various forms like watching as other men look at her. So many men have confessed that they get turned on upon seeing other men show interest in their women. Similarly, he’ll also expect the same of you when he’s watching pornography or looking at other women. This form of distance between each other creates a sense of desire and trustworthiness between the couple.

It’s not just about the penis A big number of women assume that all a man wants is to have his penis satisfied. When having oral sex especially, he’ll feel that the woman is not paying attention to all the erogenous areas but will not raise the issue in fear that it may shut her down. When giving oral, do not ignore the testicles; gripping them can be a total turn on. Similarly, paying attention to the area between his anus and scrotum i.e. the perineum will heighten his pleasure.

Fantasies Men fear that sharing their sexual fantasies with their women could lead them to be judged negatively. A great way of sharing your sexual fantasies with your partner would be by having the two of you write them down and come the next time you are getting intimate, you can pull one out and try it. This is indeed a wonderful way of spicing up your sex life.

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Amber Hoffman

I am writer and editor at Bedroom Stories online magazine, writing about sexual relationships and better understanding our lives. Feel free to contact me at [email protected]