10 Ways To Maintain A Steamy Relationship

10 Ways To Maintain A Steamy Relationship – Part 2

Tue, 10/23/2012 - 22:25 -- zena

There are many ways to keep the passion alive in relationships and sometimes they are easy to do but how can you do them when you partner doesn't want to participate. One key to keeping it real is to make sure that you and your partner are both involved in keeping things the same. Love can last if you really want it to. So, why not follow these ways to make sure that you and your partner continue to sizzle in your relationship?

1. PRETEND NOT TO BE IN A FIGHT WHEN YOU ARE

To keep the peace, always focus on the people around you. You can ask a lot of questions but don't cute your partner from the conversation or otherwise the tension between both of you will be obvious. Never show anyone that you are fighting. It is a big no, no when it comes to relationships. Stay calm and cool. Going at it in a public place is both humiliating and definitely unattractive. If your family or friends are around you after our fight, try to act civil and show them nothing is wrong. Always answer as if you acknowledging things as a couple. “We” is the best thing to use for these situations. That way people will think that you are united even if you are actually not feeling okay inside. Once you both are together in private then settle things out. That is the only way to keep the love alive.

2. NEVER SLEEP WITH SOMETHING UNSETTLED BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR PARTNER

A couple should always resolve issues between them before they go to bed at night otherwise if they don't the issue will just resurface the next day. Sleeping over it won't make it better. It might even make it worse. Settling the score the same day is the best option as it will help you both be open-minded in your relationship. It might not be easy to do but at least, it can help if you both try. Do not be stubborn. Setting aside your prides and egos will help as well.

Indulge in some kinky fuckery

3. DO ROMANTIC THINGS TOGETHER

If you have both been in a long relationship and you want to make sure that your love continues to grow then doing romantic things together can help. If you aren't the chocolates and flowers kind of guy then try do that every now and then to make your woman fall for you once more. Giving gifts was common in the past but now that you are in a stable relationship and do not need to win her affection, you rarely give her something. Giving her something sometimes is good. It is the thought that counts. For women, if you rarely cook something special for your partner, why not do so now? What having a romantic candle light dinner? Or perhaps a simple walk on the beach? A picnic perhaps? Anything romantic will both help you and your partner think differently about your relationship and will definitely think that it is worth keeping.

4. INDULGE IN SOME KINKY FUCKERY

You heard me right. Doing something kinky that you rarely do with your partner can help surprise him/her and probably make the sparks in your relationship light up once again. Try new sexual positions and perhaps indulge in some kinky games together. Be creative! Sure, the Kamasutra will help but then again, mixing things up a little will be more helpful. So, have fun and let your desires run wild.

5. SPOONING WHILE FALLING ASLEEP

Stay in contact even as you fall asleep. Sometimes you don't need sex to stay connected. Just staying in touch will keep you feeling like that. The fact that you can both snuggle and cuddle with each other in bed just makes you and your partner realize how much you both need each other even in sleep.

6. MAKE HIM RISE FROM ACROSS THE ROOM

Keeping him interested means keeping him aroused. So, why not try this one. While in a room full of people, look at him and hold his gaze for 15 seconds and imagine stripping his clothes off. As you become turned on, your body will then send out sex signals to your partner from across the room which his brain will pick up. Thus, resulting into his libido leaping to attention.

exchange dirty messages and emails

7. EXCHANGE DIRTY MESSAGES AND EMAILS

Why not try to surprise your partner by sending him/her some of the steamiest messages you have made? Make sure to be creative on this one and let your lust drive your partner wild. Promising him/her a night they will never forget will make sure that your partner will anticipate and be excited for later. Just make sure that when you promise something, you will surely do it. This is one way to keep the relationship alive.

8. EVER TRIED PHONE SEX OR HOW ABOUT A WEBCAM SHOW?

If you are far away from your partner and not sure if he/she still feels the same way about you then try calling him/her and talk in your most sensual voice. Entice your partner to do naughty things on the phone with you. If you are a woman, sex toys might come in handy. As for men, all they need is porn and their hands and they are good to go. Talking dirty is the key of course and role playing is essential. If you want to try something else then why not do a webcam show for each other? For women, wear sensual outfits for your men and then indulge in sex toys as you give him your personal private live show. I am sure, he will love it. Give commands to each other while online and then let your partner do as you ask in front of the camera as you look and also keep yourself aroused. This way both of you can get off without the need to find another to sate your needs.

9. SHUT DOWN ANNOYING COUPLE QUESTIONS

Next time someone tries to ask you questions like when are you settling down or when do you plan to have kids, be prepared. It is annoying to be asked personal questions as it feels like people are being nosy and butting in on your personal lives. You and your partner can always silence them with a genius comeback like: “When we know, you'll know.” or “ It will come. Just wait for it.”. Most couples hate nosy and pushy people but it is inevitable as sometimes these people are your friends and family members but at least if you tell them how you feel in a few words then they would back off temporarily.

10. DO SILLY, CHEESY AND CLICHED THINGS EVERY NOW AND THEN

Love can help you do crazy things so why not stop being logical sometimes and just do them? Learning how to dip and kiss if you are a man will definitely surprise your partner and make her weak on the knees. Indulging in a kissing game would be nice too. Wearing costumes together and role playing in the bedroom might sound silly but if both do it right, you can actually take up different identities and just have fun as if you are just starting your relationship all over again with a one night stand. Keeping things fun, light and sexy helps keep relationships alive.

Relationships last but only if you and your partner do what you must to keep it that way. If you really want a healthy relationship then try to follow these rules. Nobody can ever tell how long a relationship will last but we can always do something about it to make sure it does somehow. If you really want it to work, fight for it.

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Zena Alethea Teofilo

Zena is an online English teacher. She enjoys writing and drawing during her free time. She writes many different articles and stories every day. Some are erotic in nature while others are informative. Writing for this website has opened her to a new world of possibilities. She is happy to share her thoughts and opinions about many things in life. She just hopes that many people are satisfied with her work for she aims to please.