Small Gestures That Make Great Impact

Small Gestures That Make Great Impact

Sat, 06/08/2013 - 16:59 -- amber

We all know that to feel the joy of big happiness we need to learn to be happy in small achievements and be happy in tiny little things of life. Everything big thing is made of small tiny things, then whether you talk about big action or decision you have taken in life that has the capability of changing your life. We always notice the big changes, big decisions, big victories or anything which have the significant value and therefore, normally we tend to over look the small things and gestures that have the powerful impact in one’s life and sometimes that effect is so powerful that the significant things don’t matter in front of them.

Studies have proved the value of small gestures in a relationship. If you want to keep your passion alive in a relationship and you want to maintain the youthful element in your relationship then these small gestures actually facilitate you in making your relationship great or ordinary one. Apart from fixing up things in your relationship, being understanding and giving space to your partner, small signals and gestures actually doubles the happiness.

The small gestures don’t ask for big planning or finances. They are the small tiny actions that make your partner's day. You don’t need to wait for a special day or time in a day in order to convey small gestures to you partner. You can do it any time and in any way. Starting up a weekend with a bed breakfast, have a pillow fight, cuddling in bed, holding her from back when she is in kitchen cooking a meal for you, sending random text messages, leaving sticky love notes for your partner before leaving for work, sending flowers to their work place, surprise date dinner or lunch, surprise your partner by calling their friends and family over your place, planning a surprise vacations, randomly touching them and telling them how much you love them and what they mean to you, a tight hug that lasts for a long time than the usual hug, small alterations in your lifestyle and hectic schedule. These all are the small things that give fresh air in not only in your relationship but also in your life.

By doing all such things not only your relationship will get a new life but you as a person will also feel happier, satisfied and will be able to celebrate each day of your life with an immense joy. All you need to do is give attention to these small things that can completely make your world upside down. Significant and big things are easily noticeable but to enjoy these small things you really need to do whatever you heart tells you to do. At times it is good to act and think like a kid. All the good things in life don’t ask for extensive planning. These small gestures can happen every day and are actually the most effective way to live the life to its fullest. Be creative and paint a colorful life for you.

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Amber Hoffman

I am writer and editor at Bedroom Stories online magazine, writing about sexual relationships and better understanding our lives. Feel free to contact me at [email protected]