Making the First Move on a Guy

Sat, 05/04/2013 - 15:45 -- amber

One of the greatest joys of being a lady is that you get to have loads of guys flirt with you and strive to get your attention. This though isn’t something that happens every day. There are times when a girl feels that she isn’t being chased as she would like to, she goes for it!

The first tip when making a first move on a guy is to make the pick-up line to be more friendly than flirtatious. Despite being in the 21st Century, a lot of guys may easily misinterpret your gesture as being rather cheaper. This is why you would rather approach me as a friend, and most likely, he will turn the tables and start a more flirtatious conversation.

Tip number two, when asking him on a date, let it seem to him as though the whole idea of going out with him was his own. Rather than asking him if he would like to go out on a date with you, tell him how you would love to go a date with him. It’s all one and the same thing, but what really matters is the direction by which you approach it.

All through, one should maintain a confident look and give him all of their attention, so that the guy doesn’t assume that this is something you just like doing with every other guy. Maintaining a cheerful and smiling face all through is a plus, but laughing at everything he says isn’t. As a third tip then, no matter how interesting a conversation is, don’t stick around for too long. After a while, excuse yourself and make sure that you leave him with your number. This is if he wouldn’t have asked for yours already.

In relation to the third tip, never ask for his number. If he doesn’t ask for your number first, then leave him with yours. That way, when he’s calling you back later, he will feel more confident that it’s not just you who is doing all the work. This will therefore make it more of a two rather than a one person’s thing.

The good thing about making the first move on a guy is that, you don’t have to keep on waiting to be hit on. At times, guys too like to be hit on! This whole thing is further fun, interesting and makes one feel more confident about their sexuality.

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Amber Hoffman

I am writer and editor at Bedroom Stories online magazine, writing about sexual relationships and better understanding our lives. Feel free to contact me at [email protected]