How to Get Your Crush to Notice You

How to Get Your Crush to Notice You

Thu, 01/17/2013 - 01:10 -- amber

The worst feeling someone can ever have is falling insanely in love with someone but unfortunately, they fail to get that love reciprocated. Some say that if you love somebody, you should let them know about it because, the feeling could be mutual. However, many people out of fear of being rejected opt for the easier way out; letting the love fade away. Here however are very simple ways that will help you to get noticed by your crush, and in return, get them to reciprocate the love.

Befriend their Friends

This is indeed the first step towards uniting you and your crush. By getting to know and befriend his/her friends, your crush will get a chance to notice you. By noticing you, you can rest assured that your first step towards meeting your goal has been achieved. However, ensure that you don’t become too friendly to her/his friends lest your intention be misunderstood.

While at this, gradually get to know about your crush. Learn about their needs, interests, hobbies and everything else. The more you know, the higher the chances there are to getting to meet comply with those needs and at the end of the day, achieve your mission.

Be Yourself

Never pretend to be someone that you are not. Although your crush may easily fall for that person, in a matter of seconds, they will end up finding who you really are and hence, end up dumping you. You don’t want that to happen, do you? You will end up finding out that by being yourself, they too will not feel uncomfortable of being their true self in your presence.

Send them gifts of things they like

Become a Secret Admirer

Send them gifts of things they like. These may be in form of their favorite books, music, food or even clothes. However tempting it may be, never result to sending them anonymous texts or making funny phone calls. While carrying out your mission, do not let any of her close friends get to know of your real intentions. Many a times, such friends are the ones who start doing a background check on you and reporting it to your crush hence, ends up spoiling the relationship long before it starts.

Invite Them Over

Based on the progress already made, here is when you take things to the next chapter. Making the first move towards them is taken to be the light at the end of the tunnel. Invite them for a simple date like a coffee or lunch date; nothing so serious whatsoever. This will give you plenty of time to talk and get to know each other at a much deeper level. Although the answer may be a Yes or a No, in many occasions, it ends up being a Yes. If it’s a No, the two of you end up building a very strong friendship.

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Amber Hoffman

I am writer and editor at Bedroom Stories online magazine, writing about sexual relationships and better understanding our lives. Feel free to contact me at [email protected]