How to Date a Girl with Many Male Friends

How to Date a Girl with Many Male Friends

Thu, 06/06/2013 - 10:52 -- amber

In every man’s mind, he desires to be with a girl who will be able to understand his needs as a man. But, most girls who are in a good position to understand the needs of a man are they who have more male rather than female friends. Contrary to what such a man would have anticipated in the beginning, befriending and dating a girl with many male friends could trigger some insecurity issues.

To make the relationship work, the man ought to understand just but a few things:

The first thing to keep in mind is that, so long as they are just friends, then, there is nothing wrong. The only thing that can set you off is if she has been involved with any of her male friends, or rather if she has a crush on any of them. The same also may apply if one of her male friends tends to have special feelings for her. Despite this, what matters is her decision. If she likes you as much as you like her, then nothing should come between you.

Secondly, never act or show signs of jealousy. In case you are a guy who is jealous, then, at the end of the day, you may end up being the one breaking up the relationship. If you find it hard dealing with being jealous, then share your feelings with her. After all, the relationship is between the two of you and not you, her and the rest of her friends.

Never result into giving her an ultimatum of choosing between you and her friends. This is because; she is more likely to choose her friends over you. Again, by asking her to choose between you and her friends is an indication that you don’t trust her. If you make her feel as though you don’t trust her, she will rather stick with her friends whom she trusts and trusts her in return.

Also, never try to get back at her by teaching her an inappropriate lesson, like resolving to befriend other girls. The tactic is not just immature but is also bound to backfire. If you are uncomfortable with the idea, then, take time and get used to it. Once she sees that you are putting extra effort into understanding her situation, she will also do her part and start reasoning from your viewpoint. That way, it’ll be easier to reach a compromise.

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Amber Hoffman

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