Dating Tips For Introverts

Dating Tips For Introverts

Sun, 01/13/2013 - 13:36 -- maiya

Introvert doesn’t necessarily mean that these people are shy, it just refers to the people who don’t open their self quickly, who takes time to adjust with the new surrounding and people, who faces difficulty in gelling in the crowdie places and might not talk as much as you do. But one thing is certain that once these introvert people opens up their selves in front of you, you will not get any one more caring, loving and loyal person than them. They open themselves in front of those people only on whom they trust completely so never break the heart of such person.

When it comes to dating, it is difficult for an introvert person to initiate a conversation or to keep the conversation going, you will find them depending more on you when it comes to talking. However, a date can be really wonderful even if you are an introvert. This is not your weakness or any personality flaw. You are different and you should be confident about your personality and when it comes to going for a date, don’t feel uncomfortable or nervous because there are ways you can make your date interesting.

The first step in making a strong impression on your date is accepting yourself for who you are. If you are an introvert, be proud of it. You don’t need to pretend that you are very bold. Share your this trait with your date and tell them why do u feel in such a way. Make them understand how important relationships and trust are for you and that before falling in love you like to have a strong bonding. Then go to a place where you feel comfortable.

 Take your date to some calm place you feel comfortable.

Introvert people normally avoid loud places - and it is absolutely ok. Take your date to some calm place you feel comfortable. Show them your real and true personality. You can take them to some quite and nice restaurant or a coffee house or may be for nice walk. If you are not very comfortable in going alone you can also think about going on a group date, it will help you in conducting conversation and will save you from the thought that your date might get bored if you guys will go alone.

Don’t go for a person who is always talking, talking and talking. This is a fact that you don’t talk much and have difficulty in expressing yourself but it doesn’t mean that you don’t talk at all or don’t want to express yourself at all. Or just because you are an introvert - you have no right to be heard. Observe the person you are on with date, is your date giving you chance to talk, is your date encouraging you or making you feel good about yourself, is the person understanding your point of view and taking things slowly so that you can easily cope up with it if yes then you must continue to create a bond with him/her and if no then this person is simply not for you. Look out for the positive vibes and connections. Do you feel comfortable? Does the person make you feel good? Do you feel like expressing yourself with that person? If yes then this might be the right person for you.

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Maiya Hashmi