A Beginner’s Guide to Giving a Blowjob

Thu, 07/11/2013 - 22:45 -- amber

Every man loves to have a woman who can satisfy him all way round, especially orally. A lot of men however keep on complaining how their girlfriend’s are not good at giving blow jobs. Ladies, the good news is, if you have never given a blow job, or don’t think that you give it to him as you should, then, here’s a simple guide on how you can make him desire your mouth even more.

The number one rule has and will always be to never use your teeth. In simpler words, if you want to give the worst of blowjobs, then use your teeth. Teeth are not just unpleasant but can also inflict pain to the penis. Though some women have proved to know how to slightly use the teeth, as a beginner, do not even try it.

While starting, do not jump at it all at once. Make it gradual by kissing and licking his penis up and down. You will notice that he will get aroused after a while and only then should you exert more pressure by sucking on it more and getting it much deeper into your mouth. Again, you don't have to use only your mouth but you could also use your hands as well. Combine the use of hands with your mouth to keep him more stimulated.

Similarly, never abandon his most erotic pressure areas that will make him shiver with pleasure. The most sensitive parts of the penis are the head and these include the under and around the rim. These areas have more nerves than all the other areas hence you should focus more on them, but, don’t ignore the rest.

You will notice that you are more likely to have lots of saliva in your mouth when giving a blowjob. Do not worry about it - the saliva acts as a natural lubricant, or would you rather lick a dry penis? Being your very first time, the question of whether you should or should not swallow his cum may disturb you. Most men generally don’t mind if you choose not to swallow it. If you are not comfortable doing it, simply let him know.

The perfect way to perfect your skill is by practising more often with your partner. You’ll be shocked at how much easy it is and also how much enjoyable it is for both you and your partner.

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Amber Hoffman

I am writer and editor at Bedroom Stories online magazine, writing about sexual relationships and better understanding our lives. Feel free to contact me at [email protected]