Clitoris Stimulation Techniques

Clitoris Stimulation Techniques

Sat, 10/06/2012 - 02:03 -- zena

You might think that stimulating the clitoris is easy however, there are actually techniques that you can use to make your woman feel more aroused. Stimulating the clitoris is a bit like giving someone a massage. It feels fantastic at first however if don't vary your technique then the result can lead to numbness or even pain. None of those two will be able to satisfy your woman and driver her to the throes of ecstasy. When it comes to oral sex, many men believe that a simple flick of the tongue will be enough to make their partners happy. Actually, it might but only if the phase is right. However, if you truly want to rock her world then you should go above and beyond just the standard stimulation techniques.

Why not get to know the parts of women's bodies first? The clitoral hood is there to protect a woman's clitoris. It is there to prevent over stimulation. You know if a woman is overstimulated if she feels extremely uncomfortable and sometimes she can even feel pain. The key is when she starts moaning, slide between her thighs and start teasing her unexposed clitoris with your tongue until it is fully erect. You can gently retract the hood until the clitoris is partially exposed to you. That is the only time that you should dart your tongue across it. Repeat this move gently and quickly. Vary the direction each time and pause between each flick on your tongue. When she starts begging for more attention then, start releasing the hood and increase the degree of applied pressure until she starts reaching orgasm which wouldn't take a long time especially after you follow the said rules. Do not blow your woman's clitoris as it will only dry it out and nothing is more painful than having attention lavished too much on a non-lubricated clitoris.

If you truly want to be in charge inside the bedroom then try something more controlled and specific. Using you tongue deliver slow upward strokes against the delicate underside of her clitoris. This will get her fully turned on. Retract the hood and gently place your tongue beneath the clitoris. Gently slide it upward with soft, wet strokes. When done properly, this creates an extremely pleasurable tickling sensation. Once repeated slowly and steadily then it will have a guaranteed orgasm in epic proportions. The secret? Maintain gentle and deliberate strokes even when she begs you for something harder and faster. Wait for the right moment before you do just that. The first strokes should come individually. In other words, momentarily take a break from the physical contact and as she nears orgasm, alter your technique and begin sliding your tongue back to the starting point without breaking contact. This will ensure maximum clitoral stimulation.

The Do's and Don'ts of Clitoral Stimulation

There are three easy do's in this equation. One of them would have to be to take advantage of a woman's sensitive areas. Sensitive areas varies for many women. Try to find as many as you can and use them to your advantage. Gently flickering just above the clitoris will help show that you want to take time to make her stimulated and ready without rushing things. Lastly, listening to what she wants can help you become a pro at stimulating her better. Always remember these three don'ts which you should avoid whenever you stimulate your woman. Remember to keep a steady pace. Never go to fast. It just shows how inconsiderate you are as you would rather let your lust claim you than control yourself and take things slow. Never go rough on her not unless she tells you to do so. Once again, it is a very inconsiderate move on your part. Lastly, do not play her like she is a musical instrument. Her clitoris is not something that you can just play that way. That is a big turn off for women.

You need to know when to stop if in case you find yourself out of control.

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