Recipe of a Healthy Relationship

Recipe of a Healthy Relationship

Mon, 08/20/2012 - 17:57 -- maiya

The secret of an ideal and contented life are the healthy relationships that every human being envisages but only a few are blessed with the marvel. Every relationship has its own importance but the only relationship that can change a person’s life altogether is the one that the individual chooses it for himself. Yes, it’s the relationship between two lovers and to keep it a happy and a successful one, one must follow the rules that pave their ways to a blissful future.

To facilitate a healthy relationship is the dream that every lover seeks for. But only a few can cross the stage where happiness is the fundamental outcome of all the sacrifices made. Yes, making sacrifices about things you don’t like yet you have to do for your partner is indeed the most difficult undertaking yet, the most fruitful of all. The ability to make your partner happy without letting them know all the hardships you have gone through is an act that not every person is capable of performing. An advice, do not ever let go off your partner if he possesses this quality.

The basic foundation of any relationship is trust. Never mistrust your partner or charge them guilty before letting them speak. This world is full of folly and foul people who love to pollute other people’s relationship. Make sure your relationship never becomes a victim of such tainted advocates. Trust your partner more than yourself because they love you more than they love themselves. This would increase the intimacy two lovers share in their hearts amplifying respect for each other. Welcoming other’s interference in your relationship is not a good stance as this can deteriorate your intimate relationship.

One of the fundamental necessities of a prosperous life is happiness. When a person is in a relationship, all he/she requires is peace of mind. Putting your partner’s happiness before your own happiness is the luckiest and the best thing a partner would want. This doesn’t only strengthen your very relationship but also makes your partner realize the extent of love and affection you embrace for your loved one. Human beings are integrated with frailty and so, every human being has flaws. If you expect your partner to be the perfect one, then you certainly are on the wrong track. If your partner loves you the way you are and doesn’t intend on changing you the way you are, he truly loves you. For a person should accept all your flaws and should still love you unconditionally.

Relationship, like human beings are not perfect. But it surely depends on two partners how they could either strengthen it or weaken it. The intensity of a relationship is not depicted through the way you portray it, but through the serenity you take your relationship along. The real secret recipe for a healthy relationship is undoubtedly love, trust, happiness and a pinch of fights that would make your relationship all the more strong robust and successful.

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Maiya Hashmi