PIV orgasm IS possible! It just happened to me:)

Thu, 07/11/2013 - 01:13 -- Anonymous (not verified)

Back story - After a few partners, I just thought ill never orgasm unless I'm by myself, doing it my way. And I was totally cool with that. But I knew guys want you to come. So I had always faked orgasms. Always. Every time. I met my now husband. Same thing, faked it every time, when I realized things were serious I totally regretted faking every time. " what if I have to do this for the rest of my life" so I came clean A YEAR AND A HALF IN. A Little advise: don't fake it ever.

As you can guess, he was hurt, angry, betrayed, and I'm sure a lot of other things too. We worked through it. A lot which has been fun and challenging and happy and emotional.

I bought my first vibrator a few months ago and he would get me off with that. Then I got more comfortable with receiving oral. And recently started coming from that. Which was exciting enough.I think we both were fine with just that. I know I wasn't hopeful for ever having an orgasm from penetration.

So tonight, we started out with me receiving, I came. Then him receiving. Then sex. It was looking like our typical beginning of awesome sex. He was ready to finish earlier than I wanted and when he asked to I said no and got on top since he doesn't come that way.

So here it is...

He tells me to get comfortable do what feels good and not to worry. For the first time I did, and I flexed my thighs. And was getting really into it. I could feel myself wanting more. He said " lean back" gently nudged. I did and just kept riding. He started touching me and rubbing my clit. I could feel it happening. I was going to come. Normally here I would feel too pressured or back off out of frustration but I didn't, I just let it build and build and wash over me.

Tl;dr there's hope for intercourse orgasms. I never thought I would be able to. It was the most amazing spiritually connecting experience I have ever had. Tonight I feel more in love than at our wedding.