Achievement unlocked: giving my husband a blow job to completion

Tue, 07/30/2013 - 00:56 -- amber

My (25) husband (25) and I have been married for five years, together for eight. In all these years, I've never managed to give him a BJ to completion completely on my own. He has a large, thick, penis and its been hard for me to keep my mouth open for that long. We're poly, and I have been with other guys who I have managed to finish with my mouth, but they were smaller and easier to stimulate. This is quite a revelation for me.

In the beginning of our relationship, I tried very hard to do this on my own. I hadn't been with many guys before and was inexperienced. He would tell me what felt good but somehow, I never got it just right. I thought I was bad at it and the harder I tried, the more frustrated I got when I failed.

I'm ashamed to say that over the years, I had become hesitant to do any mouth action on him. Its not that I don't love the feeling of him in my mouth, or giving him pleasure; I do. I just thought it was a wash. I mean, in trying I've spent hours at a time licking and sucking, desperately trying to get him off to no avail. We still had sex regularly and he would barter, beg and trade for x minutes of a blow job. I would do it, but in feeling like a failure, I got little pleasure from it.

Until today! I had been thinking earlier that it would suck to have to ask and beg for a bj from your wife. If I had to beg for something in sex, it would make me feel less adored. I wanted to do something special because he had been working hard at his new awesome job. So, I just thought I'd do my best, work hard at it and if I couldn't finish him myself, at least I tried and he didn't have to ask me for one. I tried some different moves, concentrating my mouth on mid shaft and moving my tongue under the head rhythmically. When I got tired, I switched to my hand for a moment, but got back to sucking. It took less than ten minutes, and we were both surprised. It was easy and comfortable. I have been making this ordeal harder than it had to be for years. He said he felt very special. Now I hope to give a lot more blow jobs in the wake of my success.

I wanted to share my happiness with O.org. If there is ever a reason to keep on trying, its to see that look of happiness on my sweet husband's face. I'm thankful he has been patient with me...it took years but I finally did it.

Amber Hoffman

I am writer and editor at Bedroom Stories online magazine, writing about sexual relationships and better understanding our lives. Feel free to contact me at [email protected]

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